Reinventing your life sometimes is urgently necessary, which doesn’t mean it’s easy. You need to look back at what has happened, knowing you can’t change any of it. So you need to make sure that that past has really ended by repeating it in your thought with humility and an open mind – that’s the tough part. Once you actively manage to do so, you might find insight and catharsis. And then the possibility of a new and different future may appear in front of your inner eyes. Precisely that’s the moment you start reinventing your life.

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